What would you say makes the most solid foundation for a marriage? Trust? Financial security? The sort of profound and death-defying passion that would make Jack & Rose weep with envy? [let’s face it, they are the modern-day Romeo & Juliet, and I’m only moderately ashamed to admit it.]
It was in the latter half of the eighteenth century that the concept of marrying for love began to gain currency in the English popular mindset, and the younger generation expected a bit more say in who their partner might be. Inevitably, centuries of parental tyranny in these matters meant that alliances negotiated in terms of acreage and titles continued to sweep many reluctant couples to the altar.
Here, however, we have a brilliant print suggesting that many people cannot be trusted with such a momentous decision, giving a range of slightly less conventional – but still remarkably unwise – reasons for marriage. Take heed, single readers! Yes, even if you are presented with the prospect of a free bar… It’s probably not going to end well.
*
1. Because she probably won’t live very long anyway
Ah, that old romantic chestnut. The consolation for unsentimental men choosing to attach themselves to a woman past the bloom of youth and/or good health. Bless.
*
2. Because she will probably cheat on me, and I can seek financial recompense for the trauma
A sure consolation, if one were needed, for marrying a beautiful young lady clearly out of your league. Fingers crossed, eh?
*
3. Because those pies aren’t going to sell themselves
What woman could resist such pragmatism, such unwavering selflessness in the face of his unsold wares? Swoon.
*
4. Because the make of his shoulders pleases you vastly
Or any other body part, for that matter.
*
5. Because having a baby is a clever way of getting your beau to put
a ring on it
It’s really not. Especially if he is as unconvinced about the whole thing as this fellow. ‘Never mind John…’
*
6. Because I want FREE BOOZE
If you can contrive to find yourself a landlord for a lover, why not? Oh right, because being a drunken mess at his expense every night probably isn’t going to make you wildly attractive to a new husband.
*
7. Because I want BABIES
And saying so never terrified any man, ever
*
8. Because … she’s a woman
And sometimes, that’s all it takes
*
*
Images taken from ‘Matrimonial Speculation’ by William Esdall (1792). Courtesy of the Lewis Walpole Library. The full image can be viewed here.
Reblogged this on jannathMahal.
I think marriage is a good thing
A solid foundation for marriage is acts of love, kindness. It should not be based on a feeling, that can fade in an instant.
probably something to do with sheets or between them.
Haha excellent! The question is, though, what are the modern equivalents? I would argue that some still stand, but maybe there are more now…
An amazing number of men have married women for their boobs.
Brilliant, very funny!
very interesting read 🙂
Reblogged this on WELCOME TO HORPEMAN'S BLOG.
Love it 🙂
Reblogged this on Angela Lougheed.
Nice post, love the vintage pictures.
Reblogged this on MOTIVATUS.
I thoroughly enjoyed this post. It is interesting, and a little disquieting, to realize that as time goes on, there will always be the romantics, the calculating, and the star-crossed lovers – but oh so rarely the sensibly in love couple who marry forever and delight in the journey.
Reblogged this on Cupcake. and commented:
Marriage. Now and then. Not that big of a difference…?
Reblogged this on Entertainment Library.
boom boom ,le mariage
Arguably the funniest blog post I have read this year and full of truths. I will certainly post It. I know some people who could use a reality check in their lives.
Reblogged this on 10begins's Blog.
Reblogged this on Curious Evelyn Seeks and commented:
Bloggers, which reasons apply to me ? 😉
Reblogged this on curiousevelynseeks.wordpress.com
Reblogged this on mylosapp.
Reblogged this on azmiherdiyanti's Blog.
This is very funny but some of these are still true for some people haha
This was a fun read! Funny, I am enthralled with the span across the man’s shoulder blades. I didn’t know this for a long time, as most things like this stay hidden from our conscious mind until they burst out in full bloom. Yes, a man’s upper back is definitely a different physiche than that of a woman. It just it a very strong part of the male anatomy. So funny, you brought this out in this spoof on why to get married. (I wonder if that’s what nabbed me?) haha
Marriage for me means children, grandchildren and mutual respect. but that’s me. I think there’s more in it for women these days than men.
Ha love this. Especially No.6 😉
NONE WHATSOEVER EXCEPT SIMPLE STRAIGHT FORWARD LOVE.
“Because those pies aren’t going to sell themselves.”
Hilarious!
Reblogged this on warm heart of Africa.
Interesting! Great choice of pics
Reblogged this on Living in the moment.
This was amazing! Loved it and had no idea people still had similar mindsets today!
Reblogged this on 29 Going On 30: A year of Change and commented:
Check out this hilarious post from actual historical content!
Reblogged this on Janet Ross-Jordan and commented:
For all my unmarried friends something to consider (and hastily re-conclude you may be better off as you are)
That’s brilliant!
Wow! Have times changed.
Reblogged this on ohdamnirock and commented:
Most of these still stand true today!!
Thanks for your post. It’s inspired me to write my own. I’ve called it ‘My son is not a feminist.’
Reblogged this on A Day Without Prawns and commented:
Brilliant!
Just the sort of scenario I was musing on this morning!
Reblogged this on christileee.
Oddly enough, it is Nietzsche who says that the most important component of a marriage is conversation.
Reblogged this on my-terrible-husband and commented:
#love #marriage #myterriblehusband
Great fun from the past!
One of my top ten reasons to not get married- ( I don’t think it’s necessary, and if someone asked I’d PROBABLY consider it and I’m a woman), but this has always been my go to. In one of the many volumes of the communist manifesto (if my memory serves me right), Marx links the birth of marriage to the advent of private property. Basically, owning private property instead of communal farmland pushed our seed sowing ancestors to keep their land in their own little social units. Hence, the need for marriage and children, inheritance and the like.
Common law relationships and civil unions have taken care of this little issue, so why bother?
If you love someone and they love you, do you really need social approval for your relationship?
I dunno.
But great post.
Reblogged? Check.
Reblogged this on Across the Universe in a Submarine and commented:
Aha! I’m not the only one.
Oh wow..lol Thats interesting. I once read in a book that Benjamin franklin wrote a pamphlet on how to pick a lover. This kinda reminded me of it.
Reblogged this on Seminary Spouse Survival and commented:
Interesting read.
Reblogged this on Let's have some coffee, shall we?.